Submitted by stinky_weasel99 t3_yxvw91 in relationship_advice
Me and my gf have had a rocky relationship, I'll start there. We've broken up quite a few times and gotten back together. Biggest downside to us is her youngest kids father. Every time we break up she runs back to him and this past time she even left me for him. She currently doesn't have a vehicle and needs alot of help dropping her kids off and doing her day to day. She just got fired from her job and literally a week ago she called me after not speaking to me for a month or so because those 2 broke up after having a bad fallout and I had to go pick her up. Then she told me she's still in love with me and was only with him b3cause she needed his help. I read some of their messages and they was planning on moving on together and everything. She says they are only gonna talk about the child from now on. She wants to be able to see his other child which isn't hers and he agreed but I'm not allowed to be around her when my gf goes to see her. She's setting us up with couples counseling but I still feel like this isn't legit in a sense