Submitted by randomspicy t3_yy7ohj in relationship_advice
I moved out of parents house at 20, went to college, very independent for years.
Met a guy, moved him into my apartment. He proposed, we didn’t marry cause he wouldn’t let me keep maiden name but stayed together anyway. Next thing I know, we’ve been together for 20 years and have kids.
Once Covid hit, I became a sahm. Tbh I don’t like it but who else will do it?
I live off of his money now and I hate it!!! He uses it to his advantage also. Told me he wouldn’t give me anymore after we agreed to me quitting my job.
I’m so over it and want back into workforce. But…I have to worry about sports and time…I need to get which kid to which place. Why can’t he worry about kids getting to/off bus, homework, dinner, etc.
I hate being a woman!!!! And I don’t know what to do anymore