Submitted by Stea1993 t3_z18oqu in relationship_advice
I (28m) have been strugling with the fact that my SO (25f) of 4 years have been taking drugs more in the last year. She's by no means a heavy drug user and does it kind of infrequently (2 to 3 times a month maybe) it just hurts me because i've had a few friends and family members have their lives turned upside down because of it. I knew before we got together that she liked to try drugs but she didn't do it so frequently at the time and I know it wouldn't be fair for me to try and make her change it, I just need advice on how to accept it without it making me hurt or sad thanks in advance!
TL;DR Girlfriend started doing more drugs in the last year and i don't know how to accept it