Submitted by taylorswiftsguitar9 t3_z36p2j in relationship_advice
Sooo after sifting the dumpster fire that is Tinder I finally managed to find a great guy. He’s tall, handsome, has a good job, and we clicked right off the bat - the chemistry was amazing (both in and outside of the bedroom).
Well eventually we start trying different things in the bedroom and the subject of anal comes up. I admit to him that I never tried it before but I’m willing to give it a go if he promises to be gentle and ease his way in (he’s a little under 6.5” in length and roughly 5” around).
When asks why I never tried it before, I absently blurted out “the only other guy I’ve been with who wanted to try would have destroyed me”.
That led to an extremely awkward silence and as soon as I finished that sentence I could visibly see his confidence deflate. He then became very insecure and started asking me a bunch of questions about my sexual “past” that made me uncomfortable. In all honesty I would prefer a thick 7” inch cock, but he’s more than enough to satisfy me.
Not wanting to say this in order to avoid further bruising his ego, I just left without having sex and haven’t spoken to him since.
Tl;dr: Today I fucked up by accidentally telling my bf that I’ve had bigger dick in the past and it destroyed his confidence.