Submitted by [deleted] t3_z72fub in relationship_advice
i know, i shouldn’t have done it, but i (23f) just went through my boyfriend’s (21m) old phone. he got a new one over the weekend and as i was getting ready this morning the old one caught my eye. we live together but i constantly feel like he’s hiding things from me.
the entire phone had been wiped (sus) but i was able to get into his instagram. most dm’s had been deleted (also sus) but i found one from months ago (we were together and had just moved in together at the time) where he sent his friend an 18 year old girl’s profile and said “Who this lil junt 👀.” I’d noticed he followed this girl because I don’t know her/we have no mutual follows so I wondered how he knew her but didn’t think much of it.
i also found a ton of nudes and memories with his ex girlfriend on his snapchat, which also obviously made me uncomfortable. why does he still have all these? i really don’t know what to do and i feel like i got myself into this. would love as much input as possible.