Submitted by throwawayacct1073 t3_zbfedl in relationship_advice
UPDATE: I’ve decided against getting him a beanie this year because I would be doing it selfishly rather than in the spirit of actually giving him a gift (if that makes sense). Maybe next year, I will get him one because I think he will like it and not because I feel insecure/jealous. Thank you to everyone in the comments :))