Submitted by Fantastic_One_9543 t3_zfrdpc in relationship_advice
I know you're like super surprised this is coming from a guy and yes I do have a high sex drive (so does she) and I do find my girlfriend physically and sexually attractive. That's not the issue, the issue that whenever we do have sex, I can see the way she is in her face, I can see the way her body language is so negative. I've observed these things and it makes me feel like I'm coercing her into doing these sexual acts with me. Yes I do get consent from her everytime we do something sexual but it just feels like she just doesn't want to do it. I have brought it up in conversations before and she says that everything is fine and that nothing is wrong. We have had sexual interactions before where her body language and facial expressions were extremely positive so it's not like it's always negative but I just feels everytime I do something sexual with her that I am a bad person. So I just told her that I'm gonna stop doing these sexual acts with her because I don't wanna experience the negative body language and facial expressions. Some advice would really help