Submitted by throwra-dmvcreep t3_zkmixc in relationship_advice
My GF is really beautiful and just gets lots of attention from other guys non-stop. I don't usually let it bug me, she's never given me any reason to doubt her, but I'm reaching my wits end with a situation over the past couple weeks.
She went to the DMV recently to deal with getting a new Real ID. The guy working the counter was a bit too flirty with her, told her she was pretty, asked her if she had a boyfriend, etc. She gets that a lot and just let it slide.
It's gotten very weird since then. He's sent her flowers at both her parents address (the address on her license) and at her office, which means he must have written down the info off her ID and also looked her up. She thought the flowers to her office were from me, and when I said they weren't, we both got weirded out.
He's also found her IG and followed her. When she blocked him, a couple days later he added her on snap.
I'm not happy about this. I want to drive down there and confront him, or at least speak to his supervisor. He needs to be fired - IMO this is psychotic behavior, he's literally a public employee misusing government resources to stalk a customer.
GF keeps trying to talk me out of it. She says I don't get how it is to be a woman in her position, she's always dealt with this kind of behavior, it's creepy but more common than I realize and it'll be far less dramatic if we both just ignore it.
I just can't accept that some jerk using her personal info to stalk her is normal. For her sake and that of any other women coming into that DMV office I want him gone.