Submitted by nightfalldream t3_zktxb9 in relationship_advice
My boyfriend (of 9 months but I’ve known him for years) told me that he is attracted to the same sex as well as women and I don’t think I’m sexually attracted to him anymore. I fully support anybody in the LGBTQ community but I just want it to be him in a way?? I don’t want to seem selfish or rude about what he told me as it’s a very big thing for him and I’m proud of him and I fully support him for finding himself after so long. However, I just don’t look at him the same way as I used to, before the news, I feel like I love him but there is no sexual attraction anymore. I’m an open minded person and I’m trying to give the situation some time and see how I feel. But I just need some advice on how to either bring the connection back or to know whether there is ever going to be a sexual attraction again?