Submitted by No_Ambition7298 t3_zkzyt8 in relationship_advice
I’m in college rn and obviously was meant to be coming home for Christmas but my mother who owns the house has explicitly said she is done with me and has “released” me. So now I can’t go back home and they’re travelling for Christmas. So I’ll be spending Christmas alone in my dorm room, probably watching a movie or something.
This has been the result of the accumulation of my complaints about college and I think this was the last straw for her in the sense that she doesn’t want to deal with me anymore and she has decided she wants nothing to do with me now. I’ve cried it all out I think and I’m kind of feeling empty but I just want to know what I should do now?
EDIT: sorry for not clarifying but some of my issues are:
Yeah sorry for not clarifying but basically my course (computer science) is very intense and difficult which obviously I knew applying but at the time of high school I was quite smart so I guess I thought I had a chance. But this semester we’ve done about 30 pieces of work and counting but I can only say I’ve handed in 3 pieces confidently and actually knowing what I’ve done. The course is quite an introverted course and I’ve struggled to click with course mates and when I speak to them they always look uninterested and have formed like groups etc. and because I don’t have any interest in anything which has made it harder for me to change course I’ve struggled mentally and have been diagnosed with depression.