Submitted by PracticeGlittering59 t3_zl6a4o in relationship_advice
My girlfriend (20f) is 7 weeks pregnant, we’ve only been dating for around 7 months and have had a really good and loving connection from the first day I met her. Around 1 month into us seeing each other, she admitted that she went out with her friends and got drunk and ended up kissing another guy. Of course I was angry but after a couple weeks and long conversations about some changes on her part and her promising it was a mistake and it opened her eyes, I managed to get past it and we have been happy ever since. Fast forward to this weekend gone, she found out she was pregnant. this isn’t the best thing right now as we are both in university and are too young to take care of a baby. She’s been distressed with the decision on what to do with the pregnancy and I’ve been supporting her with what ever decision she decides to make. Earlier today she told me she had something else to tell me which has been weighing on her mind quite heavily and admitted that she not only kissed someone else but also gave him head. I’m heart broken and torn on what to do, she’s carrying my child but has been lying to me since the beginning even when she promised before that nothing other than the kiss happened. I told her after the first situation that I would leave if anything like that happened again.
Please help on what to do!