Submitted by Mysterious_Friend980 t3_zlxexc in relationship_advice
My GF(24F) and I (24M) have dated for two years. Recently she made pretty quick plans to go to DC with a friend for a few days, during the trip I noticed through some photos she sent that there were additional people on the trip I was unaware so asked about who all went with them. It was all members of her friends family, including her friends cousin, who my GF has slept with in the past. I explained to her that I would have appreciated being told about that rather than have to find out by asking additional questions. I really only wanted a simple acknowledgment of the issue and apology and it would’ve been fine as I do trust my GF. However instead I was told “I feel like you would only bring that up if you didn’t trust me” and that “yes it’s good to know but I have enough trust and respect for you to know nothing would happen”. Her reaction honestly upset me more than the actual withholding of information and I kind of feel like i was being gaslighted.