Submitted by ThrowRA-Seaz9635 t3_zrhuc4 in relationship_advice
My partner (20M) thinks I'm (20F) being Petty about not wanting sexual interaction after he gave me Pinworms.
So my partner (20m) thinks it's not a big deal that he has given me Pinworms ( small harmless internal bowel parasites) to me (20F). He has had them before and it's not a big deal to him, I found out I had them tonight in the shower and we talked about it and he is getting the medication to treat them which is great. I also googled symptoms and one of them was an itchy butt which he has had for a while as well as insomnia, which has made me even more annoyed about it since he should have known right? And he didn't think to tell me? When I laid out that I didn't want to have any sort of sexual interaction and sleep in separate rooms for roughly 3 to 4 weeks to be sure they are gone he didn't like that. We are decently active with sex and it works but tonight he was upset and didn't know how he was going to cope and said it was petty of me to set these boundaries without discussing it first. (We are each other's first proper relationship). He also mentioned that he thinks it'll tear us apart somehow. Which realistically it shouldn't and makes me kinda feel used for sex which is extremely upsetting. I ended up leaving the house to stay at a friend's to try clear my head but I don't know what to do. I don't think I'm in the wrong. I'm looking for any sort of advice on what to do. I don't really trust him that much anymore. We have been together for roughly 5ish months Any sort of advice will be greatly appreciated. Thank you.