Submitted by ThrowRA_nwube t3_zw1asl in relationship_advice
My gf got a nose job a couple of weeks ago, but now that she doesn’t have her bandages (whatever those things are) I don’t like how it looks at all, I liked it the way it was. Looking at her nose now makes me a bit uncomfortable, but I don’t want her to feel bad and I just don’t know what to do, don’t wanna ruin anything
Edit: I don’t mind that she’s swollen at all, it’s the fact that the shape of it has changed, as they put it up and it also looks a lot smaller (I like kinda big/a bit crooked noses), but she didn’t get it bc of aesthetics, but mainly bc she had a deviated septum, and they changed it a lot. She asked me for my most honest opinion, as we like to discuss everything and are very communicative, and l told her if she liked it I liked it, but she was kinda dissapointed in me for going with the “safe answer” so she asked me again and I told her I didn’t like that they brought it up, that it felt a bit off to me, but that it was probably bc I was not used to it, and she told me that it was okay and she understood how I felt because her sister had one and she said the same as me. It was a long talk but it was good for the both of us, and I’ll just wait for some months to get used to it, as I love her and every other thing about her very much.
Thank you for your support and for the good advice🫶🏼