Submitted by Stocksgouppy t3_zz1hu0 in relationship_advice
He has been on vacation, has been home for the last 8 days, his car has not left the garage. He does start his car each day and run it. I got home from work around 230 am and noticed his car was wet. I thought (maybe condensation from the weather changes"). It was still bothering me as I went about getting ready for bed. I went back outside and felt the tires, all wet. My tires were also wet. I asked him how his night went, he told me he watched youtube and played video games. I asked where he went? His car is wet? He said he hasn't gone anywhere. I said "but your tires are wet?". He said maybe from pulling his car out of the garage when he ran it earlier. (He's never pulled it out? He only runs it stationary...but its possible! This morning both of our tires are pretty dry. Which makes me not want to believe him.
I have been on high alert/anxious because there have been other signs (long hairs that aren't ours, phone guarding. Going to bathroom a lot to go on the phone-I think. He hadn't deleted dating apps off his phone months after we had decided to be exclusive. Said he forgot. Etc)
I can't tell if this is really just weather related and the garage was just really wet or encouraging condensation to form, or if I'm on the right track with thinking he is lying.