Submitted by throwRAyellowdaises t3_zz7w9c in relationship_advice
This was maybe a month ago now during a small issue that ended up being a big argument. I had our daughter in my arms I know she won’t even remember it since she’s was only 5 months at the time but I can’t get over that this little thing didn’t get spoken about when it was an issue and he let him bug at him and bug at him until he exploded and yes I’m at fault too I got defensive and upset at what he was saying and how he was being about it all. He apologised afterwards and was crying saying he never meant to do it and wouldn’t do it again but in the same breath he explained it away as i frustrated him to the point of him doing it. Sorry this is a bit of a ramble, when I was younger my mum was in a horrible relationship and I swore I’d never stay if it happened with me but I forgave him instantly and was just thankful it was me not our daughter he took it out on. I have forgiven him but it’s stuck in my head along with some of the stuff he said that day about me and I don’t know how to move on from it I cant bring it up with him as when I tried he said I was holding it over him and he already explained why it happened to me.