Submitted by ThrowRA_PrincessSoo t3_zzq27y in relationship_advice
I hope i'm doing this right, i only saw this on Instagram.
I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half and i am really in love with him. We were long distance for some time but we now live together.
I have had a bit of a traumatic experience with hospitals in the past so i'm terrified of them, which my boyfriend knows. I got really sick recently and i was in a huge pain for a few days until i realised something was really wrong. My boyfriend didn't want to drive me to the hospital. I asked him and he didn't want to, he did not even had an excuse, he just didn't want to! Althought he is not a big fan of driving.
I've been living here almost 4 months, i don't know many people yet! And i was crying and scared. I ended up calling the girlfriend of one of his friends, she is always super kind to me and she took me, i got really lucky since she helped me with everything there and there also was a really nice Korean nurse so i was able to explain and understand everything better.
I honestly feel super embarrased over the whole thing, i'm still at the hospital and he hasn't visited, althought he did text a few times. He says it wasn't a big deal because i'm fine now.
He will go to a New Years party tomorrow so he won't visit either and that makes me so sad but i also feel like i'm being dramatic and he does have a right to have fun.
So far our relationship has been great and i really am in love with him. I truly feel like he is the one but i also feel so hurt over this. We only ever had one problem that got fixed, we are always okay so i'm not used to this but it has me so sad. He doesn't seem to care so i'm a bit confused if this is a big deal like i feel it is or not.
What am i supposed to do? Is it really a big deal like i feel it is?
Tldr I got sick, my boyfriend didn't want to drive me to the hospital and he hasn't visited.
Edit: Please stop private messaging me telling me that i'm stupid, i know!!!
There's a few comments Reddit won't let me see, sorry if i don't reply