this man sounds trash. you’re giving him a roof over his head, looking after him and he can’t even sling his neck and give some good head? girl, you and your pay check deserve way more than this sack of potatoes. think of how much happier you could be in a years time if you leave him and find someone who is way more suited to you in every way. he will fully just sit back and continue to let this happen, don’t let him! he’s comfortable and you should rip the rug from under his feet.