Submitted by Beginning_Effect_778 t3_102n9gz in relationship_advice
She was at work and I was at a family party with our 2yo. I drove home Saturday night, after ball drop, around 3am and got home by 4. My wife usually ends her shift around this time but never made it home, until 8am. I let her sleep in and I woke her up around 1, by feeling on her. This inevitably led to me eating her out and having sex. About an hour after we do it, she comes out of the room and sits down in the living room, to explain to me how she feels really bad about making out with this new girl at work. I think NBD it’s NYE, she gets a little drunk and has done this before. As i start to pry, as to why she feels so bad about it, she confesses that a little more happened then just a kiss. She says this female co-worker she made out with, also made out with her pussy! Aka she got eaten out by this co-worker. As soon as she told me this i instantly got hard but also felt absolutely betrayed. Very strange situation. She says she feels like she sinned, she’s disgusted with herself and it will never happen again. She doesnt want to do 3somes and made a huge mistake. I have told her i forgive her for what happened but the more i think about it the more angry it makes me. She thinks its nbd because its a girl and its not like it was a man. However turned on i am by this, i still find myself very confused, angry and betrayed, as if it was a man anyway. All trust is gone and Idk what to do… destroy my marriage over it or forgive and move on. Put the shoe on the other foot and it’s just not the same story. Now i have to worry if its ever going to happen again. why do i feel so emasculated… any advice?