Submitted by ThrowRA-Maleficent t3_1033hf7 in relationship_advice
my ex girlfriend 31(F) just told me 24 (M) that she's pregnant I don't know what to do
I went on an exchange program for 1 year in the US and had a nice relationship with an older girl it was my first relationship and it was pretty good, the age gap didn't bother me at first and we really loved each other we stayed together for 9 months almost my entire time there, we went through a lot of discussions about our relationship we almost broke up after I realized that our lives are incompatible but we decided to stay together through out my time there before going back to my country. We discussed us getting married for visa purposes, she wanted to get married for real and I wasn't ready at all for that We discussed kids and I made it clear that I didn't want kids not anytime soon while she said she didn't have much time left and wanted kids in the near future, in the end i decided that we should break up and I went back to my country. I come from a Muslim background (although I am not religious) and adultery is a huge problem. She just called me to tell me she is 2 Months pregnant we already broke up and I am back in my country. I am having a panic attack and have no idea what to do or to even tell anyone about it, help?