Submitted by throwRAsenstvefn t3_104ssul in relationship_advice
Update- After thinking about it a lot I have decided to breakup with her. I would like to get engaged and married at some point and it seems a very big risk for me to get married with her knowing what I know now. Yes I know anyone can change during the course of marriage but this seems like I would be walking into the marriage constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop. I dont want to be in a marriage where my brain is in a constant state of guard. It would be unfair for the both of us. She deserves to be trusted 100% and I deserve to feel safe with my partner, which for me is impossible now once she opened this door and told me she would like to sleep with others if I was onboard. I dont know how to close the door and pretend like everything is normal. So I will tell her tonight that I am sorry but its not possible for me to continue in this relationship. Thank you to everyone who took out their time to give advice.