Submitted by Plastic-Wonderful t3_106ny9w in relationship_advice
My GF went to a party last night and she took MDMA pills. I am concerned about it, since I know the bad effects of this drug, and I talked to her letting her know how dangerous it is for her body, and she got kind of mad for my insistence. She is not a drug person, it was her first time with MDMA and didn't have dangerous secondary effects. I just feel like something is not Right, but I am her bf, not her dad.
EDIT: We talked, I told her that I wasn't comfortable with her doing something so important without thinking how I would feel (knowing that I am not experimented in drugs) She understood, and we deciden that from now on, we will talk before having special experiences like party drugs, we will learn about them together (for example, we won't consume anything without a testing kit), and if possible, try them together. This does not mean we will consume drugs in a regular basis, but try the least harmful as max, once in a year. We are cuddling as I write this :)
Edit 2: This something we talked about together, I didn't impose anything to her, just told her how I feel. She said she missed me, and regrets doing it without me. Experimenting together was her decision, and she is happy with it. Communication is not the same as giving orders, but instead is arriving to a common agreement in wich both parts feel comfortable.