Submitted by ThrowRAndpass t3_1083kqn in relationship_advice
This problem arose after my friend kissed me when I was at her place. I didn’t reciprocate, and she surprised me by landing a kiss on me. I pulled back, and after we got a hold of the situation, she apologized and I left. I told my wife everything. She was understandably very upset, and told me that I need to end my friendship with her. I agreed. However, I still wanted to know why my friend did this. We had a talk over the phone and we cleared things up. It was a huge misunderstanding from her part, and she apologized profusely. She still wants to be friends. After clearing up everything, I think I do too. I understand that my marriage should be a priority, but I really value her close friendship. She’s one of my closest friends, and it will hurt to have to lose that. Before I talk to my wife, is there anything that I should say/ consider?
Tl;dr My friend kissed me. After I told my wife, she wanted me to end my friendship with her which I agreed to. There was a misunderstanding that we cleared up and why she did it. Now, I want to know what to do after she cleared things.