Submitted by [deleted] t3_108uevr in relationship_advice
I know the title sounds horrible but I guess I technically haven’t cheated yet or I guess it mainly depends on what you consider cheating my husband came clean about previous infidelities and I’ve tried to get past them because they happened a long time ago(the most recent 2 years ago), For the most part I do feel happy with him but In the back of my mind the infidelity is always there for many years I had my suspicions but he would gaslight me and make me feel like I’m crazy and so I choose to believe him well about a month ago a coworker started dropping by my office pretty frequently with silly excuses it wasn’t until maybe the 5th visit I realized he was flirting with me he asked for my number and we’ll we’ve been texting it’s pretty much was always flirty but it just started getting sexual and i won’t lie Im really into him so I think might just go thru with it I know it’s horrible but I feel like it might be the only way to get over the infidelity or get some real clarity or I might just ruin my life idk.