Submitted by ThrowRAlulus t3_1097t2a in relationship_advice
Been together almost 5 years. This past year our relationship has gotten bad. Day before yesterday we were good, we hung out & had sex. Yesterday he ignored me for absolutely no reason which really upset me. I reached out multiple times with no response. Today I decided to stop his gas station to see what his problem was. Before anyone starts going off on me about going to his job… we ALWAYS hang out at his job bc he is always working etc. I went inside and asked him what his problem was and he said to leave him alone & he didn’t say a word to me the 3 hrs I was there (I usually stay his whole shift). Yes I should’ve left but this is usually how we deal with our problems by talking shit out. So I waited for him to talk to me. I’m chillen in his office waiting on him like usual when I noticed on the camera he left the store… right about his coworker came in. I’m thinking he must be coming right back bc why would he just leave in his office without saying something to me?? 5 minutes later the cops come in looking for me bc he call them and said I wouldn’t leave his store. I’m shocked to the core bc like I said I hang out at his job more than we hang out outside his job. So if he wanted me to leave why didn’t he have just said that? Everyone says leave me alone but you try to make them feel better so I didn’t take it as serious. Best believe I talked to the cops about my situation and they understood & told me to just go. I was livid that he did that, almost ruined my life, betrayed me . I knew I was done for good after that. I’m driving home and he is BLOWING UP my phone with 20-30 miss calls . I answer cause wtf does he want? He said that he hung out on them but didn’t know they would actually still show up. Then says for me to come over bc he’s cooking. Mind y’all… I was at his store for 3 hrs and ge didn’t want to talk to me or even look at me. Tells me to leave him alone. Then does something bad for me to leave him alone for good then suddenly… wants to invite me to hang out. I’m lost for words. He always does shit like this. He tells me constantly to leave him alone and how much he means it however When he knows did did/ said something that crossed the line to the point he thinks he lost me … he will fight for me to go back. As you can see this is why I get so confused after his “leave me alone” bc he never means it. I’m obviously done now . But why does he do that? Does something he knows was really wrong then hits me up to go see him when I’m feeling done for good? Any other normal small fights we have he has no problem never talking to me for a month sometimes like he doesn’t care about me. It shouldn’t matter however I would love to know why. To clarify he OWNS the gas station