Submitted by throwaway090991 t3_10azafl in relationship_advice
My boyfriend has a list in his notes app of every girl he’s been with and the worst part is he added my name to that list. He even tried showing me once but I couldn’t look because I felt sick to my stomach. That same night he was telling me how he loved taking girls virginities and how when he was younger that was his “thing.” Like he thinks all of these women are some kind of trophy/accomplishment? We’re 25 years old and I get that younger people might do this with hookups but when you’re in a relationship I feel like this is inappropriate and extremely immature. We’ve been dating around 2.5 years. I brought it up tonight and he is calling me ridiculous and saying it was “in the past.” So I’m wondering why does he still have this list? More of a rant but I’m also curious to see if this is a normal thing for around my age. I’m not very sure what to do in this situation?