Submitted by ThrowRAwetsponge24 t3_10c35vk in relationship_advice
We have been separated for about a month and a half. He is emotionally, mentally, physically and verbally abusive and once we are financially able, divorce will happen. We have kids together so I see him often. I am not attracted to him in any way. Not sexually, romantically, emotionally. When I asked him to leave, the first few days were hard, but I’ve been feeling great. I feel alive. The first 2 weeks we were still having sex. After some harsh words towards me I decided to sever all ties. He has made multiple sexual advances towards me for the last 3 weeks and I’ve turned them down. But 2 nights ago the kids were sleeping and he tried. I said no multiple times. He threw me onto the bed and I continued to say no. He then grabbed my face and said “I am tired of hearing no, shut your mouth”. I didn’t say anything after that and just tried as quickly as possible to get it over with. Emotionally I don’t know how I feel. I’m more annoyed/pissed than anything..