Submitted by throwrahlip t3_10ci8tk in relationship_advice
I’ve been with my fiancée for 5 years, but there was a point in our relationship where we split. During that point, I did sleep with someone else and I was told that I was the father of a 6 month old baby. We are supposed to get married NEXT saturday, ceremony, reception and everything & it’s a big wedding. She knows that I was tested, but both of us believed there was no way that I could be the dad. We used a condom and she even said she was on birth control. Honestly, we haven’t really even talked about it because it just felt impossible that I was the dad. Jesus. I don’t even know what I’m going to tell her or anybody for that matter.
Update?: I told her. I called her because waiting until she was coming back was risky. It was hard and she just asked me questions. From her tone, she wasn't mad, but visibly disappointed. I can't really give a good update until she actually comes back here because it's so hard to communicate about this through the phone. We were on the phone for a good hour until she had to go. She was just wondering what we're going to do but we haven't established anything about the wedding because like I said, it's hard to do so on the phone.