Submitted by ThrowRa_ritenow t3_10czfwr in relationship_advice
Hi reddit, making a throwaway account. My bf knows my reddit username.
I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months and had noticed after we were living together that he'd frequently walk into the bathroom dude i was on the toilet. I started locking the door, but he would unlock it saying he needed to brush his teeth or he forgot something, etc (some other excuse). I asked him to respect my privacy and not to walk in on me. We talked about it and he agreed.
Now, he hasn't come into the bathroom since we spoke, but ive noticed how he'll often rush into the bathroom after I pooped to try and smell. He has been subtle about this, but it's made me feel violated and totally self-conscious. Im not sure if it's a kink he's keeping secret, but I need advice here on how to proceed.