Submitted by No_Mark9579 t3_10fctk9 in relationship_advice
My BF (29M) and I (21F) have been dating 6 months. Recently, I’ve been working with his former fling (she was hired at both my jobs). I’ve felt uncomfortable around her since I met her. I decided to ask her about my bf and what had happened between them. She told me she didn’t know about me until a month after we started dating. Within that time they had hooked up after he had made a verbal commitment to me. We didn’t have a label as of yet, but we had decided to date exclusively. When I confronted him with this information he was defensive and angry. He is ADAMENT they did not hook up after we did. She has a text to her friend the morning after the hookup saying she was at his trailer. Why would she be there if they didn’t hook up? And how does he not remember? I’m thinking about dumping him