Submitted by ThrowRAAssBlasted t3_10ft9ll in relationship_advice
Welp, all i can do right now is find humour in this because its a weird situation and not something you ever expect to happen to yourself but im coming here to get some advice and ideas on how to mend the situation.
Yesterday was my 24th birthday. Its my first birthday out of home as i just got my own place last year. I decided I wanted to spend my birthday "alone", aka without the family and told them that we can go to dinner on the weekend. I wanted to spend my birthday with my boyfriend just the two of us.
It was a great day overall, and me and my boyfriend decided to wind down the night with rough birthday sex. While getting absolutely railed my family walk into the house seeing their first born and big brother getting used and abused by a mountain of a man. They run off as fast as they can. Birthday is ruined, sex is ruined, family is traumatised and worst of all i didn't get to eat the delicious cake that they brought.
I have texted and called my parents buy no reply. The only communication i have gotten is a few minutes after the incident was a text from my mother just saying "sorry". I also have not come out to them so I guess they know now. What would the best way to handle this be. I was thinking probably just give them space and wait for contact from them and go from there. Good idea or no?