Submitted by throwrabrowneyes2022 t3_10icmiy in relationship_advice
My fiancé and I broke up for a couple of months due to endless fights that kept getting worse. Sometimes I wonder if we’re truly even compatible bc we fight about everything. During our break he confessed that since he didn’t have a car (we share a car, but technically it’s my car) he traveled hours away via greyhound to have sex with his crazy ex. He said he was feeling low and desperate because I broke up with him and it was purely sexual. He is no longer in communication with this ex but that’s another story. He had been talking to her even when we officially got back together but ended it eventually. He didn’t reach out to her for “just sex” he fed her a bunch of lies about caring about her, loving her, wanting a relationship, etc. He claims he only said that because he wanted sex from her and was desperate for an easy rebound. I asked him why her of all people? She’s crazy and tried to sabotage our relationship when we got together years ago. Should I be concerned about this? He’s been AMAZING since we got back together but this is a bit upsetting. I’m worried he has feelings for her beyond sex.