Submitted by Hour-Goal1092 t3_10iobjm in relationship_advice
UPDATE: Just posted update on my page, can't add here until 48 hours have elapsed but will do so when I can.
I am writing this downstairs whilst she is still passed out in bed recovering from what I'm sure is a bad hangover. Alcohol is no excuse though as this situation happened quite early into the night.
I have been with my gf for little over a year, I run a software consultancy company and I met her as she worked for one of my clients at the time. She moved into my house 5 months ago, we got a puppy (Italian Greyhound) at her request - I prefer bigger dogs haha - and the relationship has been very strong so far.
Last night I was attending a networking event and brought her as my +1. Quite a fancy event so everyone was dressed in suits for the guys and dresses for the girls. Alcohol is also free throughout the night. It started out as a fun night but as it went on my gf was acting weirdly.
I would join her conversations midway and she would be digging into guys net worth and what care they drive etc. She has never been particularly materialistic so I thought this was odd.
A bit later we were talking to some guy together and again she asked about his net worth. He jokingly didn't want to say but she pushed and eventually he did. Granted it was high, but my gf reacted by saying "you beat my boyfriend in all 3 departments then", when asked why she meant she clarified it meant taller, more handsome, and richer.
Bare in mind I was stood right there. The guy looked a bit shocked and I smiled through the pain but was obviously extremely angry on the inside. We stayed another hour as I had some people I wanted to talk to, and she proceeded to get pretty damn drunk, then I called a cab and we went home.
It's not that I was jelaous it's just that it is very disrespectful. Because of this I will be breaking up with her, but wanted to post on here anyway to see how to go about that, as don't want her spinning it on me being insecure.
Let me know thoughts.
Edit: It's done, will post an update tomorrow if interested.