Submitted by ConfidentArt8842 t3_10koldk in relationship_advice
Context: I have children from a previous relationship, boyfriend has none. We’ve been living together for almost a year now and I feel like I’m going to die from anxiety and unhappiness. I do ALL the laundry, cooking and I bring in income. I also help out with his work and am just getting to a point where I’m too overwhelmed and feel resentful. He doesn’t cook, doesn’t clean, doesn’t stop pushing to be intimate even when I say I’m anxious and not in the mood. He doesn’t take proper care of his big dog and it’s already bit my daughter once. He doesn’t take the dog on walks, doesn’t bathe it doesn’t properly feed it and overall honestly is a lazy owner. I feel like I’m drowning in depression and just feel like I can’t do it anymore. I can’t imagine moving buying a house with someone who never cooks,cleans and never cares for the dog other than calling him over to pet him…. Would I be a complete asshole if I just ended our relationship over the reasons listed above? My sister says I’m Being “petty”… please advise