Submitted by Cultural_Customer866 t3_10l5x5d in relationship_advice
My boyfriend and have been official now for almost 3 months. We had dated previously for 2 years, then broke up for 3 years, and then started seeing each other (not seriously) again for 2 months (from April to June) - and then I got back together with my ex from June to September. And now we have been official since November.
When I came back after having gone back with my ex, he had the hair straightener in his bathroom, and I didn't say anything because "hey, I was the one that got back together with my ex after we had given each other the chance again." So I didn't think I had the right to say anything. But it's now been almost 3 months of being official and the hair straightener is still there.
Should I ask him if he's waiting for the girl to come back or something? What should I do? What would you do? And would you be upset or would you be chill about this?