Submitted by throwaway00874314578 t3_10m4uwv in relationship_advice
I have been friends with this person for years but nothing romantic or sexual has ever happened. Lately, things have gotten vaguely flirtatious. I don’t want to sleep with him but I like the idea of cuddling and making out with him just once to get the tension out of our system. should I tell him how I feel or just suppress this and let things be?
fwiw, I think he feels the same but he isn’t the type to bring up that kind of stuff.
EDIT: y’all I would communicate with him that I just want to make out once. I’m not trying to lead him on or trick him into doing anything
UPDATE: I saw him a little bit last night and he said he doesn’t see me like that. I don’t believe him but I’m going to take what he says at face value and respect his boundaries!