Submitted by ThrowRAOffendedkitty t3_10mh6cu in relationship_advice
I recently had an initial intimate encounter with a guy who apparently thought it was both appropriate and hilarious to literally tease me about my "badly made ham sandwich". He even went as far as to unironically inform me that mine "certainly wasn't the prettiest he'd seen".
Aside from feeling obviously furious and hurt, I was honestly mostly just outright confused by the whole experience. Even if guys are genuinely disappointed or dismayed by a woman's most intimate area why would you ever choose to share that information with her?
I'm simply baffled by what this guy actually hoped to achieve. Was this some horrifically misguided attempt at reassurance through humour or just bizarrely miscalculated 'negging' ?
Curious IF/WHY men have ever been openly critical of a partner's lady-business? Likewise have any other women actually dealt with 'jokes' from a guy about it or I am literally the only one this has ever happened to?