Submitted by throwRA2788383 t3_10nwar6 in relationship_advice
I’m 26M. She’s 23.
Recently I’ve been feeling extremely down on myself. I feel I get disrespected all the time.
I found out today that my ex from last year has come to my house while she was back. No one was home. So she called my mum and asked her out for coffee and my mum accepted. This is all behind my back.
I’ll be honest. I felt extremely upset but this. I left. Cooled down. And messaged my ex asking if she could give me a heads up next time as I feel it’s super disrespectful to me.
She got really defensive. Said I need to accept that it’s nothing to do with me. Said she’s gonna meet with my mum anyway. Said it’s my problem im upset by it and she doesn’t care. And it got really really nasty.
I’ve been sat in my room crying all night.
What do I do now coz I’m panicking really hard.
Tl;dr panicking after ex messaged my mum for coffee.