Submitted by ThrowRAphonestuff t3_10pzmcy in relationship_advice
Hi all, I’m unsure whether she’s just being considerate or it’s something a little more nefarious.
We live together and work opposite schedules. I’ve noticed her be quite secretive with her phone (intentionally angles screen away from my gaze, etc) while we’re in the same room and occasionally, while in the midst of typing, if I enter the room, she’ll lock n drop her phone the second she notices me. I mentioned this to her and her reply was that she doesn’t want to distract me with her screen while I’m doing other things (watching tv, on my laptop, reading, etc)
I accepted that answer and didn’t press any further because I want to trust her.
Which leads me to this… in the past week or two, I have noticed that her notifications are silenced as soon as she arrives home from work (in our message thread it says “_____ has their notifications silenced”) and when I leave for work in the morning, do not disturb is turned off before I’m even out of the driveway.
Is this suspicious? How do I gently bring it up? Helppp!