Submitted by [deleted] t3_10q9j8s in relationship_advice
I am pregnant by my husband. Just found out recently. Unplanned but not unwelcome. We both wanted kids at some point.
Recently he's made comments that made me feel like he's not going to want me if my body changes from the baby. I know that I could be reading to much into things. So let me know.these are some things he's said to me:
"If I were you I think I'd just get a C-section..it'd just be easier that way don't you think?"
Asking about how long it takes for a vagina to heal after birth
"If I were you I'd just use formula instead of breastfeeding"
asked me if I had a plan for working out to strengthen my core and lessen the damage
Offered to start working out with me after baby is born
I just change the subject because these comments make me feel insecure. Idk if I'm being crazy or projecting because in the past he's made a lot of comments about my body. Should I bring it up to him? Or just have some coffee and forget about it.