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Eh, too controlling imo. If you want to cheat you can easily cheat without him knowing.

I say stay and grow your business. Neither of you should give up on your passions to be together. Long distance can definitely be tough but there are so many ways to make it work in this day and age.

Let him go to school, stay where you are and try to make it work. Your alternatives will just lead to resentment down the road.

If your partner doesn't go for it then at least you both didn't sacrifice everything before finding out.

Culture can warp what we find attractive. On a primal level 100 lb women wouldn’t be the best candidate for reproduction. Gamer culture tends to have a filtered (caricature) version of women. I find men that are attracted to healthy women (that don’t try to look like minors) more masculine. This isn’t a shot at small women but at men who want women more diminutive to seem more masculine by contrast. There’s an inverse of this with women who want a 6’6 version of Thor to feel more feminine by contrast. Guys shouldn’t bother with women who play into the height/Thor mentality and women shouldn’t bother with guys who want a babydoll. Let them have each other. Again not a shot at little women or big men but at those who fetishize it. Also, I wouldn’t be turned on by a guy who wasn’t turned on by me. Find someone else. Mutual attraction is what makes sex hot. Otherwise you’re just masturbating with each other’s bodies.

ohhhh, wow. She stole your money. Banks don't make that kind of mistake. I've worked in banking for 25 years.

Tell her you know she spent the money and will give her a payment plan to pay it back. Then set it up and make her sign the agreement. Tell her if she doesn't you will ask the police to investigate the bank. I bet she comes clean.

Don't leave your art business. You aren't being selfish. You're being asked to put your life on hold until he finishes school. You're going to regret going more than staying.

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She can pump breast milk and store some so she can take a day off to herself now and again.

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Sounds like hell on earth.

Do you have access to a phone right now, to call a therapist and tell them all about it.

Ofc the rational choice is to leave, but its very hard for to do when bein used to abuse.

Best of luck and do the right choice

Your wife is literally spoiled fucking rotten. LMAO. I do all doctors appointments, grocery shopping, all cooking, all baths, breastfed, all wake-ups, and all bed times (plus all dishes, and about 50% of all household tasks, including pet care for our senior dog) because my man works hard. He is a very involved and loving father, don't get me wrong, but he is exhausted and I understand. He does all the laundry, 50% of vacuuming, and 50% of trash duties. He pays all bills. I am currently heavily pregnant, and we have a toddler. * I still do most of those things (except breastfeeding now.) He gives me at least 1 hr to myself every night so I can unwind a little, too. I've never had a Nanny. My Mom died when I was 21 and my Dad is a nut job- I would never leave him alone with my kids. Lol. She has WAY, WAAAAAAY more free time than she's acknowledging. Tell her if she wants more of a social life she can get a part-time job on the 3 days you have a Nanny at the house.

>So, where do I even start?

the police

I'd start by accepting you probably have no legal recourse as when an adult hands money to another adult, without signing anything to validate the money is the property of A and not B

You’re normally screwed legally

So its parents with a hope they either shame 3k out of her pockets or help you out.

Other than that, you learned a hard lesson that many of us have.

The people closest to you are sometimes thieving fuckers, and this is exactly how they react when their betrayal is uncovered.

Sir this is a Wendy's

She spent it. She did not lose it.

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Leaving someone who makes you feel like shit all the time is always a good move. He is trying to isolate you. He's beating down your confidence to have control over you. If you could trade places with anyone in the world who would you feel comfortable subjecting to your situation? If you flinched and went no one leave immediately.

“Hey, I really like you and wish we could talk more and hang out sometime. Is that something you might want, too?”

If he says yes, yay, you’re out of purgatory. If he says anything other than yes, move on. There are a bunch of people out there who would love to be with you, so go find one!

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You say "Hey, great pic of your forehead. Can I just ask... what are we doing here? Do you want to go on a date or no?"

You very well may get rejected and that sucks so mentally try to prepare for that. But it's better than sitting there doing nothing hoping the other person just magically makes a move.

Tbh you can just start by saying something as simple as hey, I like you and think you're cute. Would you want to go on a date?

Now again he may say no but at least then you can start movin on or just being friends or w e

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Yeah I want to i just get really anxious and awkward when it comes to being direct about feelings and stuff any ideas on how i could go about that?😭

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