Thank you.

Ok… there are two real possibilities here:

1- she is or is looking to physically cheat. If so she isn’t very clever.

2- she is looking for validation from guys that aren’t you because she is feeling insecure, low or curious… which still really isn’t okay.

What you do is up to you. If you ask and she responds with anger… that is usually a defense mechanism and not a good sign on the fidelity front.

Probably. She went out of her way to find your phone number (to which I find an issue).

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Oh absolutely. I’m more so wondering if there’s the possibility something else happened. Like with the settings. Just so that if I bring it up, I’m not the jealous insecure asshole yenno? Thanks

I have never used dating apps myself, but...

>I found out from a friend that she was on his bumble date page. I asked him to show me. She’s removed the pictures of us and only has pictures of her.

Even I can tell that's no bueno.

You know what this is.

Thanks, I didn’t think so. And she no longer has a bio.

Nope, you’re not missing anything. Call her out. Did she change her bio as well? As in, is it clear she isn’t only looking for platonic friendships now?

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Lol dude. Asking men if they want to go on a “date” is literally her job.

Dude just fucking ask her out already.

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Yeah I was blind

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This is weird. Don’t do this. She asks you out but can only see you at her work? Something is seriously off.

I'm not paying for dates. However, we haven't hang out outside of her work yet.

Are you paying for these dates?

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A lot of great insightful questions here

Not loneliness talking. I like her. I feel that way with only some girls. one or two girls one to three months. I find that either they have boyfriends or not my type after I spend time with them.