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You need to be comfortable communicating about sex. Then you simply say "let's have sex" or "you wanna have sex"

Eva Rodsky: Fair Play. Read it, please: it helps to resolve such conflicts.

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Well first thing is don’t sleep with too many guys on the first date no matter if you like them. Guys don’t like girls with high body counts it makes them look like hoes and also they will think you might have an std and pass it on to them along with making you look easy and guys don’t want easy girls. Second, he must have respect and take things slow with you considering having a serious relationship rather than getting in your pants n leave. If you want physical touch then touch his hand or when you leave give him a kiss on the cheek

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No need to make assumptions. If there’s a moment, make a move. Profession is irrelevant. If he’s not at your pace, he’ll let you know.

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We walked around a park for 3 hours on our first date and then went to a museum exhibit about lou Reed and got lunch on our second. I don't have time for a night time date until our 4th date but also I just don't know what his pace is. He's like very smart but kind of a skinny shy guy, usually I date like construction workers or personal trainers

I was in a situation like this way back when. My old gf was ready to hop into bed before I was ready and we had to take it a bit slow (which frustrated her quite badly).

I would say that this guy is either hesitant to push into the physical aspects (which has nothing to do with you) or doesn't want to come off as overly sexual. I would say that engaging in smaller acts of touching can help make him more comfortable with being closer to you and will lead to more intimate acts.

It'll come with time. It isn't you doing anything wrong, he just probably doesn't want to fuck this up (ironically).

What was the context of the two dates? If you want to sleep with him, set it up.

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Sounds like you need to establish a clearer way of engaging and disengaging.

If these signs are being misinterpreted (on both sides), then you should try to find ones that you can both understand. If you don't want to just say "lets have sex" then you could come up with code phrases that essentially mean the same thing.

Mow the lawn = have sex

smell the flowers = just kiss

etc etc.

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It is totally possible to hit the wrong button drunk or something, BUT changing the pictures… not really… unless it was a profile from BEFORE you were together? Otherwise… she went on there… why? Well that is another story… not great.

If my boyfriend did this, I would just walk in the room and say “Bumble. Explain.” And wait… make it awkward so he starts talking… and listen. 90% I would end it there… but I can see the curiosity thing happening. I would have to trust him a lot but really… it would be in my head that this was not good.