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I can lend you a bin to throw him in.

What does “on campus, he can’t come to me when I’m with friends” mean?

He won’t physically wake up and talk to you?

>I'm considering just being blunt and just saying "I want to have sex"

Just say that!

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I'm not even gonna read your post. This sounds beyond immature, that's not how grown ups resolve issues. She either learns to communicate, properly, and resolve any issues you have or you break up.

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He’s got some work to do before he’s ready for a relationship. You know this isn’t going to last. You are too young to be taking care of a man like this. Walk away. He needs help. That’s not a slam. He really does.

I definitely have told myself what you said... I'm not going to be able to change him, no one else could and I certainly can't. And I know he won't do it for me. He does sometimes take three or four days off from drinking. He thinks that is enough to give his liver a break and he thinks the fact that he can take a few days off means he is not an alcoholic. The days he takes off are great days. Most days I have spent with him he doesn't even remember large parts of our conversations. I am supposed to meet his parents in March. It's super important to him. I feel terrible to break it off before that. His friends and family have all been so happy that he has found someone. He is so sweet to me. But I'm very unhappy now. Lonely and feeling rejected. And feeling sorry for him.

Gross double standards. Your bf needs to see how hypocritical he is being.

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We spend Sundays together. He works Monday - Saturday. So he wants to have a guys night Saturday.

I kind of see where your getting at- this is actually helpful. He is a shorter guy and he has expressed being insecure about his height. Thank you.

Allowing someone to treat you like shit by saying they're depressed doesn't help either.

Why aren’t you spending time together? It doesn’t sound like much of a relationship if you both are choosing to spend your weekends with other people. Honestly it doesn’t look like a relationship at all.

I assumed this was the case initially. At first, I really liked it- in past relationships I felt like I had to constantly say no to sexual relations with past partners. My libido is on the lower side but not absent. I think this could be a part of it.

Again, this is taking a narrow view of it. It comes in all forms, not just the one you’ve experienced.

Being judgmental doesn’t help anyway. The question is how to fix it.

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I'm guessing he's uneasy because they're dudes, which just screams insecurity since obviously men and women are capable of being friends.

Just remind him that they are just friends, they know he exists and that you aren't single, and you're trying to make friends and feel less alone. Don't cut out friends for a dude.

Lol I'm 26 a bit too late on the sexist don't sleep around lecture

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If? {sigh}

A fifth of whiskey every day, those were your words. That's equivakent to about 16 shots. Every day.

He can't have sex, wants to spend less and less time with you, but uses pretty words occasionally to keep you on the hook. Take as old as time.

Alcoholics get more and more selfish with their time. It never ends well. Never. You are not married, you don't have seven kids with him, you don't own a house together, none of the myriad of reasons people may actually be stuck in a relationship. And you are not the one in a billion exception. You will not change him, and he will not change for you. What you're seeing now is his true colors.

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You were definitely set up. He is hoping for alone, intimate time with you. Don’t be alone drinking with him and you’ll need to watch your drinks and how much you drink around him. If you can swing it, get your own room.