Is he married?

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>He disappears communication-wise every now and then and says there’s various reasons for these (work,life,etc)

I read this as (work, wife, etc). Hmmmm...

That all depends on his motives.

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Honestly, text him that you weren't to go through with it. Let him process before you talk to him in person.

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He might change but probably not in a timeframe that will make your relationship work. Also its a not trusting you thing. Putting his emotions on you like this is unhealthy and I had an ex do this to me (not jealously just saying he was a bad person when I broke up with him to manipulate me).

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Right...cause it is happening. I mean I know it's happening. I bought prenatal vitamins for the first time yesterday, it's happening and I need to include my boyfriend in that. I think I'll ask him to come over today.

Sounds like a terrible person. It does not matter whether he is cheating on you right now. At some point in future you will argue or be in a worse place in general. At that point he will go find somene else on the side.

Do not waste your life on him.

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Because your grandpa treated you like crap doesn't mean you are. We are all special in our own ways.

Just remember you make an impact on other individuals lives no matter how big or small. Don't dismiss his kindness.

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I wonder how he sleeps at night knowing that any man who happens to walk behind you might be able to look at your butt.

Kind of up to you. If you are kinky enough and comfortable sure. Tbh most people wouldn't.

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The conversation after is extremely important. Make sure you talk about how you felt about it, if any boundaries were crossed, if you want to continue, etc. Communication and trust are key.

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So she's lied about who she has been talking to, deleted messages etc and is now trying to accuse you of something you haven't done.

Why are you apologising when you know you didn't do anything wrong?

Either she's incredibly insecure and controlling or she is up to no good again and is trying to gain some moral superiority

Either way she sounds like a massive red flag. Do you really need this crap when you're only 22

Bin her off and concentrate on your engineering degree