Unless she returns the feelings it’s probably a little upsetting. Because you thought this person was your friend and genuinely just likes being around you platonically, but now you wonder if that person just had ulterior motives the whole time.

It affects how people she knows see her. Your parents, for example, will always have the issues you discussed with them in their head when they interact with her, and she knows they do, and they know that she knows.

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"Another one? Well, I've been ignoring it all this time; I can probably keep ignoring it."

I have talked to him about this, I offered to join him in skateboarding and he agreed to that and we agreed to plan one day out of the week to do something different. We never lived up to either of those things

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It doesn’t matter what 10000 internet strangers think. If this is CHEATING TO YOU, then he cheated. Go from there.

What? This doesn’t have any info as to what happened. You told us: Girlfriend didn’t like a photo. You fell asleep. She packed her shit and left.

Wat?

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The first time, I told her because I had obtained different opinions and came to her with them. She assumed that I was trying to get consensus on my side, but I didn't. I'm an open book, almost always have been. I was an open book with her when we were friends before all that. This is the first time the issue ever came up between us.

The issue is that she's worried I'm talking bad about her. It stems from trauma from her ex

>Can someone tell me what his thinking process might be?

I doubt it, but the one thing you didn't mention in all this is whether you've talked to him about it. If so, what did he say?

I'd think most of us would find this unfulfilling, but I also know that by now, I would have addressed it. In one sense, 2 years is a pretty long time, but in a larger sense, it's still part of the honeymoon phase. This reads like 2 people in their 60s!

Then YOU plan a date. YOU take him on a date. You plan the fun events and lead by example. Then you can ask he do the same. If you are just sitting around too you are equally responsible for the boring relationship.

Fix the flea problem

Do you plan an actual date or activity?

You’re not a passenger in this relationship. If it’s not working for you, do something different or end it.

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Because it is your private issues with your wife. This is something between you and her. She doesn't want her business all over town with people knowing what's going on behind closed doors.

Think of it this way, if you couldn't have sex with her because your penis didn't work, would you want her sharing it with anyone who would listen?

Maybe that way you can understand

If not you are being purposely obtuse.

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Please for the love of God stop posting this

Then it sounds like its fair for you to feel frustrated.

Help me understand. Spell it out to me why it's such an issue. I'm clearly missing something.