you don't trust your boyfriend - break up - or just fight about it. you are not going to magically start trusting him next year..

the phone calls? don't answer calls from numbers you don't know.

you are absolutely right about your bf and his friends - birds of a feather flock together.

good luck!

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Not sure what advice you’re after. You’re an adult and she doesn’t get to tell you what you can or cannot do. She can end a relationship if she is unhappy with things but she doesn’t get to dictate how you spend your free time.

It’s dancing. No one is going to slip and fall on a dick during a dance class.

No I get it I hate men like that too however it’s one thing to be sexist and another to care about your health. Wouldn’t you be concerned if a guy slept with a bunch of women like idk 50+ wouldn’t you think he may have an std and you be concerned about your own well being?

I know I do sounds like and act like a child.. but on Valentine’s Day, even my friend just date a girl for twice bought a flower for her. I feel that’s the basic stuff to do. I know I ruined it I’ve already been working on it so hard. I did have some relationship before. all bad side of me happens recently to be honest. I know I’m super toxic I know… I’m trying to improve myself soooo hard. I like him so much. I do feel so sorry to make him feel stressful about everything. What can I do to make him change his mind while I’m working on myself?… I don’t want to lose him because my stupid issue.

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I get that, but while her insecurities, opinions, and feelings should be considered, they do not give her the right to veto your hobbies.

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I'm glad you can see this for yourself.

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You can't make sure it works out without actually putting any work into it, you know.

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Girl just leave this shit. You know as well as I do he was doing some sketchy shit to begin with.

Why else would he have deleted her and hid her from you? I’m not surprised your emotions were heightened after him lying and gaslighting you about his actions. However, you acted extremely poorly by reacting physically but I’m glad you’re working on yourself and realize how awful it was.

At the end of the day you’re so young and there is clearly a lot of toxicity in this relationship already, totally not worth it.

Do you think it's better for him to stay with someone that isn't attracted to him? One day he will know. Ans then how will he feel knowing you felt that way about him?

Break up.

Just tell him "i'm not happy. I like you a lot as a person, you are truly a great person, but i can sense, feel deep down this isn't the right fit for me. I truly wish you well"

You need serious help. I’m not being nasty, you sound like a 12 year old. You don’t know this man, you’re ‘desperate to be in a relationship’ - why? Why not just take it slow and build a solid foundation? You bought couples bracelets?? You were sad all night because you didn’t get a flower?? Have you ever been in a relationship before? You are a parade of red flags. You don’t split up with someone so that they chase you. You split up because you don’t want to see them again. You need to step away and work on yourself, because the only men that will want this will be trash. Life isn’t a Disney movie. You had a nice guy and you ruined it. Learn what a good relationship looks like and speak to a therapist, this is months of unravelling.

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Yeah she likes to be seen as the person who goes out of her way to always help people, but we call her ass out and tell her we know it's so she can post it to social media. She gets mad, but we're not blind to her bullshit. People will always figure out that part of you. Narcissists aren't psychopaths, they're not hard to spot.

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Seems like you've allowed this to go on too far. You need to stop being a doormat and set a boundary. If he lives with you he pays x amount of rent or utilities or he stops sleeping over more than once a week. If he's not interested in moving in time to break up and move on. Don't waste more of your time.

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