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I know you are right! It’s so hard to turn my brain off I am definitely in shock.

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He or I. Him or me would be objects, there's no transitive verb, so we need subjects. Subjects being he or I.

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we really love each other and he’s an amazing boyfriend. this is the only thing about him that can be so annoying. it’s like a god complex and he doesn’t do it all the time I’m just wondering how I should react next time. normally I just laugh at him

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Best to go to a OBGYN. That amount of pain is not normal. Could be vaginism, vulvodinia or something else. Don't have sex if it hurts, though. It should be a pleasant experience

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If my boyfriend starting doing that I'd tell him it's unattractive to me - which isn't a lie, that sounds annoying and would put me off so much.

I used to date a guy who bragged about random shit ALL the time and he was deeply insecure and had a fragile masculinity complex. I broke up with him after 2.5 months. I still cringe thinking back. Nah fam!

It's OK to be grossed out, but try not to waste too much brainpower even thinking about him. He's not worth it.

If my boyfriend starting doing that I'd tell him it's unattractive to me - which isn't a lie, that sounds annoying and would put me off so much.

I used to date a guy who bragged about random shit ALL the time and he was deeply insecure and had a fragile masculinity complex. I broke up with him after 2.5 months. I still cringe thinking back. Nah fam!

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If I’m being honest i guess it’s because I now know my gf was spoon fed ( now cut off by family except one cousin ) and if I dumped her she would be on the streets . I convinced myself once I healed I’d move on my own and help her move back home with her cousin to get life in order but now it seems her bad decisions are now about to ruin my chances of even moving on my own if I get an eviction due to her leaving prematurely . Got myself in a sticky trap trying to have hope :/

You're right!

You're right!

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He just thinks you're hella easy. You've known him for literally months. Your relationship is less established than most highschool flings. Why would you marry him?

But am I wrong lmao

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Break up. Your family might like him but you are their daughter. You and your happiness will always come first. Im sure if they knew how he treated you they wouldn't like him so much either. Free yourself and be happy

Tell him it’s a turn off when he acts that way. It makes him seem insecure and you find it unattractive

It may hurt for a few seconds, but otherwise it should be generally pleasant (may not climax at the beginning, but that just needs practice). You pain is way too much, definitely see a doctor!