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Gosc101 t1_jaeof3v wrote

XD

She tells you she loves you so much she will fuck that guy and only be faithful to you when you are around. Please, have some self respect.

I guess you do not mind being cheated on, actually? If you decide to stay I would check marriage laws regarding children in your country. You know, in France for example being not biological father to child does not mean anything you still are forced by law to be his "father".

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thebouster t1_jaeo7k2 wrote

"Am I being stupid for wanting to get back with her?" Not stupid, but you ache for the girl you HAD, not this one who would blame YOU for HER cheating

"Should I delete her location (cant seem to stop looking at it and wondering if she’s with him)? " Yes

"Should I not meet her in Italy?" No

Just thoughts from a random dude on the internet.

Good luck bud

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Happy-Nose-111 t1_jaeo5ew wrote

You are depriciating her with what other man might think, which is really your own though’s projection. She had casual sex with men and suddenly she is disgusting and not worthy of becoming your wife, and anybody who ‘d marry her must be a loser. Absolute rubbish. …You had your fair share of fun but you are a catch to marry, right?!

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CephalopodSpy t1_jaeo5af wrote

On the one hand, most of my coworkers and I have each other on snapchat and it isn't ALWAYS that deep. That being said, he also has her phone number and she lied to you. And her lie doesn't even really make all that much sense. Regardless of her reasons she's definitely not being straightforward with you and that's a red flag.

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deemsterporn t1_jaenz1m wrote

I can't see any reason why they would be upset. I honestly think you're being a bit of a doormat here. They should be finding another roommate, it's unreasonable to pay rent until august if you won't be living there at all. You should absolutely take the furniture you purchased by yourself.

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UsuallyWrite2 t1_jaenyvb wrote

I would not recommend using rover. Too much liability if it goes south and I’ve seen it go pretty south. If anything, I’d board her at her vet or a proper boarding facility. If she’s a puppy though, she may not be up to date on all of her vaccines in order to board safely.

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Idkman4182 OP t1_jaenymn wrote

That’s kinda how I’m feeling.. but idk if he’s really brought it up to her. I don’t want to force him to say something ya know?.. idk it’s just weird. The fact that him and his brother speak English to each other and that his mom doesn’t is just super weird to me

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nightowl2023 t1_jaenrwq wrote

It really depends on the people. "Clubbing" means different things to different people. For example, I would be totally find with my girlfriend going clubbing without me. I trust her, I know her interests, and I know she would never do something selfish in the name of "fun" because she is mature.

My ex-girlfriend I absolutely would not have been okay with her going clubbing. Because her definition of clubbing was booty shorts, getting high, or getting drunk. In addition to being addicted to attention.

And as you can imagine this is why we broke up.

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HatsAndTopcoats t1_jaenpaa wrote

So you're complaining that they treat you like a child, while also saying that you can't be expected to go act like an adult without them holding your hand.

Literally, Google (and YouTube, and Reddit) can get you through this. Look up how to get a car or get insurance or rent an apartment or anything else. Read at least a few articles and watch some videos. Then go do it.

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