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benicebitch t1_jaeoehh wrote
Reply to My boyfriend’s mom only speaks Spanish when I’m around when she can speak English. (I’m 25 f he’s 32 m. Been together almost 3 years) by Idkman4182
Your boyfriend would be answering in English if they had nothing to hide.
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Winter-Travel5749 t1_jaeoat6 wrote
Reply to comment by EcstaticTax6811 in My (19M) Girlfriend (21F) is financially irresponsible and it's making me question our relationship by EcstaticTax6811
Honestly, you sound like a great “catch”. Don’t settle. If your gut is telling you marriage to this person is bad, trust it.
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thebouster t1_jaeo7k2 wrote
"Am I being stupid for wanting to get back with her?" Not stupid, but you ache for the girl you HAD, not this one who would blame YOU for HER cheating
"Should I delete her location (cant seem to stop looking at it and wondering if she’s with him)? " Yes
"Should I not meet her in Italy?" No
Just thoughts from a random dude on the internet.
Good luck bud
Happy-Nose-111 t1_jaeo5ew wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRAPoloDolo in How do I 19M get over my girlfriends 18F past hookups by ThrowRAPoloDolo
You are depriciating her with what other man might think, which is really your own though’s projection. She had casual sex with men and suddenly she is disgusting and not worthy of becoming your wife, and anybody who ‘d marry her must be a loser. Absolute rubbish. …You had your fair share of fun but you are a catch to marry, right?!
CephalopodSpy t1_jaeo5af wrote
On the one hand, most of my coworkers and I have each other on snapchat and it isn't ALWAYS that deep. That being said, he also has her phone number and she lied to you. And her lie doesn't even really make all that much sense. Regardless of her reasons she's definitely not being straightforward with you and that's a red flag.
Mountain-Instance921 t1_jaeo2x0 wrote
Reply to I made the biggest mistake of my life, and I don’t know how to fix this (26F)(26M) by ThrowRAJenphr
You don't deserve to have him back. Take your life lesson and move on. This whole "oh i need to experience other penises"thing is pathetic and nonsense if you already met the person that makes you happy.
house_ruless OP t1_jaeo2u3 wrote
Reply to comment by stuckinamoontop in I [F26] want to help my partner [m25] change some habits without seeming like I'm shaming him or talking to a brick wall. by house_ruless
I'm definitely working on getting myself into therapy as well because I know I'm also not perfect. It's just so expensive and there aren't a ton of resources near us. But I appreciate your perspective, especially from lived experience.
deemsterporn t1_jaenz1m wrote
Reply to comment by sailormoonbbyx in my (20F) roommate (21F) is acting weird towards me after me planning to move out by sailormoonbbyx
I can't see any reason why they would be upset. I honestly think you're being a bit of a doormat here. They should be finding another roommate, it's unreasonable to pay rent until august if you won't be living there at all. You should absolutely take the furniture you purchased by yourself.
UsuallyWrite2 t1_jaenyvb wrote
Reply to comment by Boone05 in Can I (f36) ask my friend (f36) to find someone else to watch her dog? Friends for about a year. by [deleted]
I would not recommend using rover. Too much liability if it goes south and I’ve seen it go pretty south. If anything, I’d board her at her vet or a proper boarding facility. If she’s a puppy though, she may not be up to date on all of her vaccines in order to board safely.
Idkman4182 OP t1_jaenymn wrote
Reply to comment by Jmm1272 in My boyfriend’s mom only speaks Spanish when I’m around when she can speak English. (I’m 25 f he’s 32 m. Been together almost 3 years) by Idkman4182
That’s kinda how I’m feeling.. but idk if he’s really brought it up to her. I don’t want to force him to say something ya know?.. idk it’s just weird. The fact that him and his brother speak English to each other and that his mom doesn’t is just super weird to me
area51sfailedproject OP t1_jaenycr wrote
Reply to comment by nightowl2023 in My boyfriend (23M) is done with his partying stage but I (20F) am just beginning by area51sfailedproject
Oh that’s not a great combi no. I’m so sorry. But I’m happy for you that you found a trustable clubber now! :)
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Reply to comment by ThrowRAPoloDolo in How do I 19M get over my girlfriends 18F past hookups by ThrowRAPoloDolo
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nightowl2023 t1_jaenrwq wrote
Reply to comment by area51sfailedproject in My boyfriend (23M) is done with his partying stage but I (20F) am just beginning by area51sfailedproject
It really depends on the people. "Clubbing" means different things to different people. For example, I would be totally find with my girlfriend going clubbing without me. I trust her, I know her interests, and I know she would never do something selfish in the name of "fun" because she is mature.
My ex-girlfriend I absolutely would not have been okay with her going clubbing. Because her definition of clubbing was booty shorts, getting high, or getting drunk. In addition to being addicted to attention.
And as you can imagine this is why we broke up.
ConvivialKat t1_jaenr53 wrote
WTF? There is no "exclusive FWB." The whole point of being FWB is fucking with no commitment by either party.
This woman had done nothing that needs to be "forgiven." Yeesh.
You need to sort yourself out, dude.
HatsAndTopcoats t1_jaenpaa wrote
So you're complaining that they treat you like a child, while also saying that you can't be expected to go act like an adult without them holding your hand.
Literally, Google (and YouTube, and Reddit) can get you through this. Look up how to get a car or get insurance or rent an apartment or anything else. Read at least a few articles and watch some videos. Then go do it.
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Reply to comment by area51sfailedproject in My boyfriend (23M) is done with his partying stage but I (20F) am just beginning by area51sfailedproject
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Jmm1272 t1_jaenlxa wrote
Reply to bpd [f 25] x commitment issues [m 28] by pissybaka69
First of all do you mean bipolar or borderline personality? How does either one make you more open and giving? I’m very familiar with both
[deleted] t1_jaenlhf wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRAPoloDolo in How do I 19M get over my girlfriends 18F past hookups by ThrowRAPoloDolo
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blondeboomie t1_jaenkhf wrote
Reply to comment by GeorgeRRHodor in Do I (M28) forgive my FWB (F27) for almost seeing someone else? by [deleted]
Don’t forget EXCLUSIVELY do these things
iNeedScissorsSixty7 t1_jaenidx wrote
Reply to I can't tell if my (f20) boyfriend (m26) thinks I'm not worth the effort, is just cheap, or both. by Legitimate-Line5849
I refuse to believe this is real. I need to stop reading this sub, man.
Gosc101 t1_jaeof3v wrote
Reply to My (25M) GF (23F) broke up after she “cheated” by [deleted]
XD
She tells you she loves you so much she will fuck that guy and only be faithful to you when you are around. Please, have some self respect.
I guess you do not mind being cheated on, actually? If you decide to stay I would check marriage laws regarding children in your country. You know, in France for example being not biological father to child does not mean anything you still are forced by law to be his "father".