Why are you punishing her? It's not her job to get people to like you.

Omg I’m gonna cry, a complete stranger called me insecure😭 girlllllll go lay!!

That is my hope, but I have a feeling he will still use his hand only.

They are known as the vagina spammer, they have been at it for months, if not longer. Just report when you see their posts.

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In regard to the hymen, it is a lot more complicated. You are absolutely correct, but it’s not as simple as you’re making it seem. Different people have them different sizes some Harden as they get older there’s all kinds of variables but you’re right it’s not as clear cut as I was always taught. There’s something else.

The first time vaginal sex can be uncomfortable and sometimes painful, but that’s absolutely normal and that is taken from a medical site. Some women may even bleed during the first time in sex. Which goes to my point, which is what this young woman was talking about which is the first time is usually painful for most women. I have never met a woman that said it wasn’t so you are very lucky and good for you .

Also, thank you because I lost my virginity so long ago I didn’t pay any attention and I had boys, so I never had to deal with it. So you learn something every day. But the home is a lot more complicated than you’re making it and it does stretch across from some women, but most women you’re right it doesn’t go all the way across the vagina. Which explains why you can use tampons most women, one and 200 count by the way thank you again.

Sisters fight hard but love harder. Especially twins. I’ll be honest, I thought you were wishy washy when describing your possible plans too. I would have expected that you would make a reservation and make plans instead of listing 5 different things you might do. Let this go.

He doesn’t respect you. Let him go and bet he tries to come back. Whatever the case you can do better. You’re not a project you’re a person. This guy doesn’t want you he wants something he can show off. Objectification is a sleazy kind of relationship to have with anybody, much less the person you’d marry. He would most certainly trade you in for a newer model in a few years, or keep you around to get the groceries while he leases a new ride. Find somebody that wants to be with you as you are. Or let them find you. Either way let this fish go he stinks.

I think with a little patience, he'll come around to needing to see you naked. I'm sorry about your complications, that sounds scary!

>the idea of being seen with her knowing that other guys might look on us thinking “oh ive heard about her before, i cant believe he wifed her” makes me feel disgusted.

Sounds like you have some growing up to do before you try out a Big Boy relationship.

Do you want to just be FWB with him?

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She had these plans with her sister a lot longer than she had any plans with you... yeah, she kept canceling them and then changing her mind, but it should have been pretty clear that those plans were the priority. Just let her go have fun with her sister and do something fun with her when she gets back. Sounds like that was the original plan anyway.

I would bet that his anxiety, panic attacks, and behavior is tightly linked together. I think seeking marriage counseling as soon as possible with that kid on the way, is super important.

What woke me up, after a rocky point in our marriage, was my wife telling me she was leaving me. The consequences of my own actions hitting me so squarely that it was like an instant overwhelming epiphany of what I had done.

He had his fun, and he's now moving on to a more grown up situation. He's signaling to you that if you want to party, it means you're in a different phase of life and that to you partying now is more important than future planning with him. It's a test, but I doubt he even knows he's doing it. That said, the worst thing you can do is try to convince him to go back into partying. You'll be wasting his time and compromising his future path for very temporary reasons, and that is just wasteful. You have to decide if you prefer the man or the party.

14 weeks is a long time for a guy that told me at the start of the relationship "I want sex every single day." He's already masturbated 4 times alone since last week's surgery. It's been... difficult... knowing that he refuses my aide too.

Yes I'm very overwhelmed by it all too. I knew I was going to be, but the complications have made it that much more so.

He’s refusing. I don’t see many options. Honestly he sounds like a total prude. I don’t think you can fix that. If he’d be willing, I’d definitely see a therapist together because this is going to be a long term problem.

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3 months is way too soon to get married!! Please run!

Yes, a horribly insecure person that needs constant attention to validate herself. Bye, darling

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He shouldn't have agreed to something that he didn't intend to follow up on. But I also wouldn't agree to call my wife regularly during the day while I'm at work. Break up with him over this if you want, but if you don't want to break up then I would just drop it.